I decided to do one of those questionairre thingies about myself...
(I do have work to do yes I know and promise to get back to it soon...or later..lol)


I AM....finally doing things in my life the way I want and putting ME first.

I WANT.... to be happy all the time. Idealistic maybe but say what.

I HAVE.... changed

I KEEP..... faith that the good people will always prevail and the stupids and meanies will not prosper.
Heh.

I WISH I COULD....drive (legally that is)

I HATE..... that it's asking me what i 'hate'. That's a strong word. I dislike many things but i refuse to give all those elements the time of day by listing them here.

I FEAR.... that I am misunderstood a lot. oh! and failure.

I HEAR.... that good things come to those who wait...

I DON'T THINK.... that I'm as bad a person that most people will lead you to try to believe.

I REGRET.... nothing. everything (good bad and in between) happens for a reason, whether I understand it or not.

I LOVE....my family.

I AM NOT.... the same girl I was before.

I DANCE... like a 'bad ting' and if I tried to tell you otherwise my peoples would strongly disagree. :P

I SING.... when nobody's in the car and in the shower (who doesn't right?). I'm on Britney's level of lip synching however... :D

I NEVER..... understood math. Figures confuse me.

I RARELY..... cry. I 'balls-ed' up. However when I do cry it's water works central...You've been warned.

I CRY WHEN I WATCH..... Sappy, corny, *sigh* inducing romance movies..

I AM NOT ALWAYS......nice. I'm told that I'm in cranky mode most times.

I HATE THAT.....guys can get away scotch free with some things but girls get chastised for...tsk tsk....

I'M CONFUSED ABOUT..... nothing atm, which is pretty damn good.

I NEED.... to do me. (no you perv! that's not what i mean!)

I SHOULD.... have watched Gossip Girl instead of stupid tennis last monday.....ugh. Nadal over Nate Archibald is not a good choice. ;)

I THINK.... lots of things.

:D

That smile can only mean one thing people! It's friday! Ah! It's amazing how one day of the week arriving can make you grin and giggle. It's the possibilities of the weekend ahead! What are we doing?
Anybody have limes planned- beach? mall? movies? enjoy it!
Who's looking forward to the date with the cute guy or pretty girl? Oh la la!
And even if you're just spending quality time at home with your family doing nothing, that's always enjoyable as well.
Whatever you've got planned I hope you all enjoy the weekend!

So let's take in the good vibes on this Friday- say it with me- THANK GOD IT'S FRIDAY! :D
Don't let anyone spoil your day, try to mess up your weekend or stain your good vibes with their negativity.

So ready up yourself people- the day gets better because after friday comes the weekend!!

have a good one guys and girls!

There's this expression that goes 'Fool me once- shame on you. Fool me twice- shame on me' (I think there may be more to it but I forget at the moment.lol.)
When someone is fooled and subsequently made a fool of more than two times, who do we blame then? The person that's doing the fooling or the one that's been fooled yet again? I say both of em!

This piece is about something that happens time and time again- people who go back into, and essentially never fully leave pointless relationships. Girls- it's applicable if you've ever known a friend or been the girl who refuses to leave the guy who hurts you over and over. Guys (because I'm not leaving you out in this one!) it falls in your garden if you find yourself always going back to the one girl that will just not stop making you look like a total idiot.
Simple question: why do we do it?

I know a friend, more than one girlfriend who just are stuck in a dead end relationship. I say dead end because it's been in the same position it was in when it started-nowhere. I say stuck meaning she can't leave, but I really mean she can't leave because she won't leave. The guy embarrasses her, hurts her, cheats on her, lies to her, forgets important days and dates and a list of other negatives. Still she sticks with him.

Boys- it's the girlfriend who you just will not quit. She cheats on you, lies to you, ignores you, flirts with your boys (for the rare cases of bad ting-ery; she's actually gotten with some of your boys). All this screams for you to get as far away as possible from that relationship yet you're stuck in park.

*insert confused face here*

To the fooler and the fooled- shame on you both!
Grow a pair and realise that this relationship is isn't working and walk away.
Should you hurt someone you love over and over? -no
Is it cool to be with someone who makes an idiot of you constantly?-no
That ain't love people. It's something much much worse. A neat little phrase called 'wasting your time'.

People have said it hurts them to walk away from a relationship they've been in for so long. Okay. Think about this- If being with them only ends in your hurt, confused, frustated and embarrassed every day; would being without all that negativity really be that bad? How much more can it hurt you if you eliminate the source of all that hurt essentially? Thought so.

Fool you once- shame on them.
Fool you twice- shame on you.
Fool you more than that- you're both total idiots.